Because we were in such shock the first week we found out, we wanted to wait to tell folks until after my first ultrasound....however, it didn't quite happen that way!
I first told Marie, Pam and Pete at work, who absolutely flipped with excitement! I had to tell someone, I just couldn't hold it in!
I was going to tell my family on June 13th after my sister's shower; however, Joe's canoe trip got cancelled on the 6th so we decided to tell them at dinner after my sister's 3-d ultrasound appt. After seeing that amazing footage of my precious nephew, we went to Famous Daves for dinner with my parents, Heather, Tim, his parents and my aunt Lori. It took me a while to figure out how I was going to share the news, but finally decided to make them all t-shirts! Tim's parents said Grandma and Grandpa with baby blocks in the middle. My parents' said Grandma and Grandpa x2!!! My sister's said World's Greatest Aunt! They were all so confused! At first they thought the "x2" meant our baby to be from China and Heather just thought I gave her the wrong shirt! LOL So, I apologized and gave her a bracelet jewelry box which had my pregnancy test inside. She opened it up and immediately thought I somehow got a hold of her test and put it in there! She was even more confused now! I just laughed and looked at her and smiled. After a few seconds, she finally got it and just started balling! My parents didn't have a clue until she turned the box around and then they yelled "you're pregnant???"!!!! Then the entire table started balling! It was the best reaction I could have hoped for!
That next Wednesday I shared the news with my staff at work and they were all floored and filled with excitement and joy! There wasn't a dry eye in the room!
The next Saturday was my sister's shower and the three of us decided to dawn our shirts and have a "fashion" show for the rest of my family so they could guess the great news! It was so much fun! My shirt said Auntie and Mom 2 b, Heather's shirt said Mommy and Auntie and mom wore hers I had given her earlier. We backed onto the deck and all turned at once and Lori asked them to guess what our shirts had in common! Immediately my aunt Becky say the "2" on my shirt and thought Heather was having twins! LOL then she guessed the baby was 2 lbs.! They were having a very difficult time with this game! Lori said "read Heather's shirt, how can she be an aunt?" They all said "because of the adoption." She asked, "how else can she be an aunt?" They all paused and some finally whispered, "you're pregnant?" Then they all yelled, "you're pregnant???!!!!" Everyone was in tears and screaming! Again, another fun surprise!
On Friday, June 19th we surprised Joe's parents with the news over dinner! It was great! Joe gave them copies of our ultrasound pics in his dad's father's day card! They were floored and so excited! My parents came over for dessert afterwards and were able to spend time together - all four grandparents! We had a great night!
We've had a ball sharing the great news with all of our close friends and church family! So many of them have been with us through the many years of trying and facing the hardship we've faced. It's been such a delight to share with them such a miracle and blessing from God!